"Dressed to Date"
by Kara Mae Noveda
Shopping Bag, Sunstar Daily Newspaper
February 8, 2008
Don't have a Valentine date yet? You can still try your luck over the weekend, snag a date in one of your all-girls night outs wherein you're set to stand out in these sweet short numbers. Show your coy side in these flirty choices that'll make head turns and eventually get you booked on V-Day.
Banish pre-date jitters about what to wear and store girly dresses because you'll never know when you'll get that call.
Be a romantic
Head-to-toe ruffles are not necessary. A hint of feminity is what usually takes the cake. Pair soft tops with structured pants or skirts; long, flowing skirts with a simple top. Victorian blouses are conservative tops which will look just right with leggy bottoms, try a pair of dark formal shorts if you don't want to look like an office secretary (although the secretary look is getting a lot Hollywood patrons lately, like Jessica Alba and Katie Holmes
Be a lady
Dressing like Lil' Kim on the first date may get his attention, but it sure won't hold his affection for long. If you'd like to show some skin, do it in ladylike proportions. Try peek-a-boo styles that leave something to the imagination, crocheted sweaters, sheer tops over a tank, slit skirts, and even halter dresses that simply bare a bit of the collarbone.
Be comfortable
No need to hold your breath in tight jeans: opt for something with a bit of stretch if figure-hugging styles are your thing. Shift dresses flatter almost any figure. One of the easiest dress silhouettes to wear, the shift dress is a simple short shape that basically hang straight down from the shoulder. The lack of fullness or waist definition gives you a sleek line without lots of volume.
Depending on where he's whisking you off, you can try leg-lengthening wedges or a sandal that laces at the ankle for added foot appeal.
Get personal
First impressions last, so they say. And while you can't always design what you wear, personal touches can still be done. Whether it's your lucky charm bracelet or a groovy pin, let the real you shine through with well-thought-out pieces of accessories.
Simple ways to reveal bits of your personality
●Wear your favorite color: hues tell a lot about the wearer.
● Don a sentimental piece of jewelry (your grandmother's necklace) which are no-brainer ice breakers when you're alone with him.
● Dress in a familiar style (only a bit better).
Go Easy.
Dressing to the designer nines may be too much for a first date. Chances are, he's not going to know Manolo from Mossimo, so save your impressive designer labels for girl's night out. Remember that if you show up looking like too much of a fashion plate, he may be intimidated by your shopping prowess.)